why would the movie be called Twilight, when it's all about the sunrise of youth and its marvels and ideals..
new moon sounds more apt for the story of youth romance..
next should be The Morning After?
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Saturday, November 21, 2009
does anyone read this blog?
does anyone visit this blog? can someone put in a comment so i know that i'm not blogging into thin air?
Sunday, September 20, 2009
bravery or strong will?
watching michael j fox on oprah, and how he battled and lived with parkinson's disease for the last 11 years, yet taking it with humour and looking on the bright side - just not letting it get to him..
then this other lady who lives with her head tilted to her right due to a neuro dysfunction..
they are so brave, and strong willed...
i get a bout of food poisoning, with head spinning, and i am so upset about it....all my plans have to be changed... gosh, these people are so brave, it must be God's strength!
then this other lady who lives with her head tilted to her right due to a neuro dysfunction..
they are so brave, and strong willed...
i get a bout of food poisoning, with head spinning, and i am so upset about it....all my plans have to be changed... gosh, these people are so brave, it must be God's strength!
Friday, September 18, 2009
cool retro fashion
i wish i had kept all my wardrobe of the 80's... fashion today is everything i used to wear as a single, sociable, cool youngster.
so i now feel comfortable to keep in trend, as i have done it all before, and can do it again - :)
hopefully, apart from the fashion, morals and ethics of the 80's will come back too... or have we gone too far north..
so i now feel comfortable to keep in trend, as i have done it all before, and can do it again - :)
hopefully, apart from the fashion, morals and ethics of the 80's will come back too... or have we gone too far north..
Thursday, September 17, 2009
celebs celebs
the last few months have been quite significant... too many superstars and celebs have called it a day on earth...
yasmin ahmad, patrick swayze, DJ AM, farah fawcett....
i won't include MJ because he lives forever! in our hearts and minds...
yasmin ahmad, patrick swayze, DJ AM, farah fawcett....
i won't include MJ because he lives forever! in our hearts and minds...
Saturday, September 12, 2009
hello world...thought of the day
"Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass...
it's about learning how to dance in the rain!"
I thought...that's it! We all face adversity in our life. However, it's not the adversity, but how we react to it that will determine the joy and happiness in our life. During tough times, do we spend too much time feeling sorry for ourselves, or, can we, with gratitude...learn how to dance in the rain?
It almost sounds too simple to feel important, but one word...gratitude, can change your attitude, thus, your life, forever. Sarah Breathnack said it best...
"When we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives but are grateful for the abundance that's present....we experience heaven on earth."
Friday, September 11, 2009
life and non-life
life is tenuous.. we don't know what will happen tomorrow, or even the next minute.
one minute i was walking, the next minute i was on the floor with a twisted ankle. and its now 3 weeks on, and i'm still limping...darn...
today i'm here, will i still be here next year, next month, next two years? we take everyone for granted including our own parents, then we feel guilty that we haven't spent enough time with them when they were alive..
wonder where i will be next year.....
one minute i was walking, the next minute i was on the floor with a twisted ankle. and its now 3 weeks on, and i'm still limping...darn...
today i'm here, will i still be here next year, next month, next two years? we take everyone for granted including our own parents, then we feel guilty that we haven't spent enough time with them when they were alive..
wonder where i will be next year.....
of kids and daughters
when did they grow up? when did they stop talking to parents? where are the days of non-stop chatter and hand-holding shopping sprees?
perhaps they grew up too fast, they have too many friends, they forget mum, they forget mum is not a slave nor a maid nor a driver, but mum is waiting for some good conversation. mum's waiting for updates about her life, about her day, about her thoughts, about her college, about her friends, about anything....just chats...
where did they all go to? are all daughters like that? don't think so - stella's daughter is still ranting and rambling about her entire life to mum..... how about a slice of that?
perhaps they grew up too fast, they have too many friends, they forget mum, they forget mum is not a slave nor a maid nor a driver, but mum is waiting for some good conversation. mum's waiting for updates about her life, about her day, about her thoughts, about her college, about her friends, about anything....just chats...
where did they all go to? are all daughters like that? don't think so - stella's daughter is still ranting and rambling about her entire life to mum..... how about a slice of that?
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
MJ
http://www.myspace.com/jackson_world
check out this link - it's Janet Jackson's blog pages, with loads of pics of her and MJ - she looks fabulous.. and follow her list of friends to go into MJ's page...
these are the things we want to remember him by - the music, the love, the humanitarian...
and to think someone actually compares MJ with Jade Goody - all in the same sentence.... ewwww no sense of respect and honour.
check out this link - it's Janet Jackson's blog pages, with loads of pics of her and MJ - she looks fabulous.. and follow her list of friends to go into MJ's page...
these are the things we want to remember him by - the music, the love, the humanitarian...
and to think someone actually compares MJ with Jade Goody - all in the same sentence.... ewwww no sense of respect and honour.
God is good
through our problems, God hears our hearts though we do not speak, though we forget him...
He is Good... and He will provide for us..
He is Good... and He will provide for us..
Friday, May 15, 2009
stressssss
everyone says i look stressed..... i am stressed from hearing it.....
instead of being stressed, why don't we all go for Desserts..... stressed spelt backwards... cool eh.
here's a contemplation for all you cool people, some good advice for all you ladies out there...take it from one who speaks from experience, it's useful advice i promise you :
instead of being stressed, why don't we all go for Desserts..... stressed spelt backwards... cool eh.
here's a contemplation for all you cool people, some good advice for all you ladies out there...take it from one who speaks from experience, it's useful advice i promise you :
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
| Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up..
|| Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you
later.
||
| You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
||
| Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
|
| Even if he has more education or in a better job.
|
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
its been a while
time creeps up on us, just as age and procrastination...
tonight, i decided that it was about time i posted some thoughts, otherwise the cobwebs will fill the blog, not to mention cobwebs in the mind which are already plentiful..
when we put all our efforts and time into work, work, work, we become very boring, very stale, and uninteresting; but when we take a little time off to smell the roses, and have a laugh, read a book, sing a song, we recognise that the simple joys of life are what keeps us going..
so smell the roses, and if you can't find any, use your imagination - you will be amazed how wild it can be.
tonight, i decided that it was about time i posted some thoughts, otherwise the cobwebs will fill the blog, not to mention cobwebs in the mind which are already plentiful..
when we put all our efforts and time into work, work, work, we become very boring, very stale, and uninteresting; but when we take a little time off to smell the roses, and have a laugh, read a book, sing a song, we recognise that the simple joys of life are what keeps us going..
so smell the roses, and if you can't find any, use your imagination - you will be amazed how wild it can be.
Monday, March 30, 2009
happy laughing
Dear Ah Lian,
> >
> > Thanks you for your letter. Wrong time no see you. How everything?
> > For me, I am quiet find.
> >
> > You say in your letter your taukeh soh want you to chain your look?
> >
> > Somemore you must wear kick kok soo, hope you can wok properly.
> >
> > You know, Ah Kau Kia working in a soft where company now. Last week,
> > he take I, Muthu & few of his friend to May Nonut to eat barger.
> > After that he
> > take we all go to kalah ok. Muthu sing and sing no stop until the
> > sky bright.
> >
> > Next week, my father mother going to sellerbread 20 years annie wear
> sari.
> > My father mother going to give a fist to all the kampong people. So
> > you must come with your hole family.
> >
> > I only hope one day we no need to write and send letter to you and
> > to
me.
> >
> > Better I e-meow you, you e-meow me.
> >
> > I will ketchup with you soon. And when you got time, please few free
> > to call me.
> >
> >
> >
> > Goo bye.....
> >
> > Worm regard,
> > Ah Beng
> >
> > Thanks you for your letter. Wrong time no see you. How everything?
> > For me, I am quiet find.
> >
> > You say in your letter your taukeh soh want you to chain your look?
> >
> > Somemore you must wear kick kok soo, hope you can wok properly.
> >
> > You know, Ah Kau Kia working in a soft where company now. Last week,
> > he take I, Muthu & few of his friend to May Nonut to eat barger.
> > After that he
> > take we all go to kalah ok. Muthu sing and sing no stop until the
> > sky bright.
> >
> > Next week, my father mother going to sellerbread 20 years annie wear
> sari.
> > My father mother going to give a fist to all the kampong people. So
> > you must come with your hole family.
> >
> > I only hope one day we no need to write and send letter to you and
> > to
me.
> >
> > Better I e-meow you, you e-meow me.
> >
> > I will ketchup with you soon. And when you got time, please few free
> > to call me.
> >
> >
> >
> > Goo bye.....
> >
> > Worm regard,
> > Ah Beng
Saturday, March 21, 2009
make the most of what you have
time flies like a bullet train.. right under your eyes.
so make full use of time, don't idle. put each minute of the day to good use - sleep a bit, laze a bit, but make time to laugh, to work on a project, to draw, to paint, to read, to research..... anything but don't be a fixture of a couch potato or end up with computer eyes..
there's more to life than just the computer or the box. make friends, visit the museum, browse the bookstores...
be a well-rounded individual, self confident, knowledgeable and rich in conversational topics. then you will be a very attractive individual - it's not all about good looks.. but what's behind those looks!
so make full use of time, don't idle. put each minute of the day to good use - sleep a bit, laze a bit, but make time to laugh, to work on a project, to draw, to paint, to read, to research..... anything but don't be a fixture of a couch potato or end up with computer eyes..
there's more to life than just the computer or the box. make friends, visit the museum, browse the bookstores...
be a well-rounded individual, self confident, knowledgeable and rich in conversational topics. then you will be a very attractive individual - it's not all about good looks.. but what's behind those looks!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
fulfilment
for those of you above 30, do you ever wonder if your life has been fulfilling? that perhaps you have achieved, or done, or experienced, that which fulfils you - that you can go to bed and think "that was good, and that was ME"
do you have a spouse or a partner who fulfills your needs, well maybe not all, but many? do you both share the same dreams, the same hopes, the same needs? do you both kick the ball towards the same goalpost - or are you kicking it at opposite directions.
BUT - the good news is, even if you differ, you can differ in tandem, accept the differences and love the differences.... that may be fulfilment in reality....
for you below 30s, lucky devils, just enjoy and laugh along the way.... cheer doesn't come often these days.. but every so often, do think about the ball you are kicking......
do you have a spouse or a partner who fulfills your needs, well maybe not all, but many? do you both share the same dreams, the same hopes, the same needs? do you both kick the ball towards the same goalpost - or are you kicking it at opposite directions.
BUT - the good news is, even if you differ, you can differ in tandem, accept the differences and love the differences.... that may be fulfilment in reality....
for you below 30s, lucky devils, just enjoy and laugh along the way.... cheer doesn't come often these days.. but every so often, do think about the ball you are kicking......
Friday, January 30, 2009
a curious case of cassie cussen
wouldn't it be nice if all of us were born Cassie Cussens? cousins of Benjamin Buttons - born with an age of 80, then growing younger instead of older..
by the time we are in our forties, we would have all the maturity and wisdom and looking forward to the innocence and naivety to come. we approach the innocence armed with mistakes made and learnt, hence a much richer life..
wouldn't that be the beginning to perhaps a perfect world? less wars, less teenage and youth problems, less mindless activities practised by many youths of today..
which means i am just about 21 years old today, how inviting...how exciting... :)
by the time we are in our forties, we would have all the maturity and wisdom and looking forward to the innocence and naivety to come. we approach the innocence armed with mistakes made and learnt, hence a much richer life..
wouldn't that be the beginning to perhaps a perfect world? less wars, less teenage and youth problems, less mindless activities practised by many youths of today..
which means i am just about 21 years old today, how inviting...how exciting... :)
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
men are from mars, women?
men are definitely from mars, they think with their b*lls... they only know of one gratification - s*x...
women use their hearts, too much of it, so much so they don't see the martians! they only feel the heat :)
and we think it's love and passion? let the old rocker tell you - it's only lust and action...
but let me not disillusion you hot-blooded young people - you go find out for yourself... who knows.... maybe there is heaven on earth..
women use their hearts, too much of it, so much so they don't see the martians! they only feel the heat :)
and we think it's love and passion? let the old rocker tell you - it's only lust and action...
but let me not disillusion you hot-blooded young people - you go find out for yourself... who knows.... maybe there is heaven on earth..
Friday, January 23, 2009
WOW
hey, how about this - another blog.. who says the oldies don't rock eh
a blog is another word for escapism - escape from the junk that gets clogged up in the brain.
everything to everyone - nothing to no one..... hmm, how right..
a blog is another word for escapism - escape from the junk that gets clogged up in the brain.
everything to everyone - nothing to no one..... hmm, how right..
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